Wednesday, February 20, 2008

There is a reason for everything


I have been exposed to the internet for about 9 years now and have just started blogging a year ago. Initially, my purpose for blogging is to make money but I havent been so successful. I realized that I may not have the right reason why I blog. Through bloghopping I observe that most people do it to share their thoughts and feelings. Thanks to my friend Arlene who inspired me to do a personal blog. That's why I have this.


So as I was surfing the internet I came across my niece blog and I got interested reading her blog to see what's going on with her. She had some confessions there that were quite shocking to me. She is a high school student already but we treat them just like babies (I guess), never have I realized that she's a young lady already. I dont wanna go into details here coz I respect her privacy. But I am just so thankful that I bumped into her blog coz now I know what she's been up to lately and I was able to give advice to her (as her tita of course). I even shared this with my other sister and we both have the same reaction. Im so grateful that my nieces are smart enough to know how to protect themselves, cool enough to enjoy their adolescence years and receptive of our advices. Moreover, Im thankful to the internet coz it became a venue for me to show to my family how much I care about them. To all my nephews and nieces, enjoy and be safe coz I love you very much!

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Tuesday, February 19, 2008

What hurts the most?


Am I so sensitive or selfish? Why do I easily get hurt? These are the things that play in my head right now? I do not know if I am right but what I know is that I just love my family so much that I wanna spend all my time with them. And I expect that my loved ones will do the same. Is that right? Am I expecting too much? I know that at times I need to let my love ones grow by themselves, have fun with others. I think they need space, they need sometime without me. But I guess I cannot understand that, coz I am not like that...maybe....


And what hurts me most is that when your loved one does something that you dislike. And that he knows the negative consequences of his actions but he seem to careless about it (that's what I think).

Do you consider me as your partner or just simply your wife? Think about it.......Today, I hate the word sorry for its useless, coz damage has been done. Im hurt again.

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